Emily Root: Concerned about library’s LGBTQIA+ program

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Published: 08-20-2024 5:42 PM

Last November, the introduction of the “Alphabet & Allies” group at Athol Public Library sparked significant concern. Targeting LGBTQIA+ tweens and allies aged 9-17, the program originally required parental permission but included a loophole allowing bypassing this requirement through staff support. This policy raised alarms about young children discussing complex topics like sexuality without explicit parental consent. The age of participants is crucial. Children between 9 and 13 are in a developmental stage where they are still forming their understanding of the world. They often struggle to distinguish between reality and fantasy, and discussing sensitive topics like sexuality in an unguided or premature manner can lead to confusion and emotional distress. These are foundational years where parental guidance is paramount in shaping healthy perspectives and ensuring age-appropriate education.

The library’s original approach undermined parental rights and overlooked the developmental sensitivity of this age group. By suggesting an option to bypass parental consent, it disregarded the foundational role of parents in their children’s upbringing. The program’s name itself, “Alphabet & Allies,” appears tailored to appeal to young children, potentially drawing them into discussions they may not be emotionally or cognitively prepared for. Concerns deepen when considering the broader implications of public funding supporting initiatives that could inadvertently expose children to adult concepts prematurely.

Promoting inclusivity is commendable but it must not come at the expense of disregarding parental rights or jeopardizing children’s emotional well-being. Public institutions like the Athol Public Library have a responsibility to uphold community values and respect parental authority, particularly concerning sensitive matters involving children. While parental permission is now explicitly required for Alphabet & Allies, ensuring that discussions about sexuality are age-appropriate and parent-supported is essential to fostering a supportive and respectful environment for all children.

Emily Root

Athol